Have you ever encountered someone who called themselves INFJ?
After hearing this word you got confused because you have no idea what INFJ is. In this article, we are gonna talk about what is INFJ and what INFJ door slam?
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INFJ Is personality type based on The Myers-Briggs Personality Type Indicator.
The MBTR is a self-assessment type indicator. Which is used to define the strength and preference of any person?
Questions provided in self-assessment test is developed by Myers and her Mother Briggs.
Questions of assessment are based on the theory of personality types by Carl Jung.
This assessment test reveals the likes and dislikes of a person. We’ll talk about all the 16 personalities described by MBTR in detail in our next article.
What is INFJ?
INFJ stands for Introverted, Intuitive, Feeling, Judging. It is considered is the rarest personality only 1.5 percent of the population considered as INFJ.
They are considered as an idealist. They are gentle and caring in nature.
When it comes to the creativity they are very creative people. With a high moral standard, they are very reserved type personalities.
Strengths of INFJ
- Sensitive when it comes to the needs of others
- Focused on future
- Values relationships
- Think about life and enjoy it.
Weakness of INFJ
- Difficult to understand
- Expect too much
- Dislikes confrontation
- Oprah Winfrey, television personality
- Martin Luther King, Jr., civil rights leader
- Atticus Finch, To Kill a Mockingbird
- Carl Jung, psychoanalyst
- Taylor Swift, musician
Why INFJ Door Slam ?
If you are familiar with INFJ personality you should know that INFJ famous for door slam. Before explaining why INFJ Door Slam, we should understand what exactly Door Slam means?
One of the most famous traits of INFJ is that they are very good at cutting people off from their life. They maintain distance and act as the person is dead for them.
They just disappeared silently from your life and when you realized it, it’ll be too late.
People always cut each other from their life reason could be anything like anger or pride. If they are hurt or they want attention people will cut others out from their life.
But this is not the case with INFJ. INFJ considered a forgiving personality. They believe in forgiving people.
But if they cut someone off or door slam someone then they must have crossed their limit.
INFJ mostly door slam on someone who is toxic or narcissistic in nature.
When they know someone is taking advantage of them they cut them off.
Reasons INFJ Door Slam people.
When people repeatedly:
- Abused them verbally, emotionally.
- Hurt them physically.
- Invade their privacy.
- Complained about their lifestyle.
- Created a lot of unnecessary drama or conflicts.
- Manipulated them, betrayed them.
- Take advantage of their kindness.
INFJ most probably forgive someone for all the things we have mentioned above because they are the kindest souls.
But if someone repeatedly does these things then they deserve door slam from anyone.
The best thing about INFJ people they are not demanding they always assume that if someone really thinks they are worth it then they will prove it by their actions.
INFJ can read any situation easily and they act accordingly but they don’t understand other people don’t have that kind of superpower.
And later INFJ start expecting people which often leads to conflicts.
Because they just assume everybody is as good as them in reading situations.
What to do when INFJ door slam ?
If you know someone who has INFJ personality then you should be honest with them.
Because no matter what they are always there for you. INFJ tolerated and always allow people to take advantage of them.
They’ll always try to make things right and will choose door slam (INFJ Door Slam) as the last option.
People think INFJ door slam them because they are angry. And everything will be alright once their anger cools off.
But INFJ doesn’t act on the anger they calmly decide when to door slam to someone.
So there is no going back from the door slamming phase to normal.
People always try to reopen the door because they think that’s the right thing to do.
Because from the INFJ personality’s point of view what they did is logical. And they are right because when they door slam they don’t involve their emotions.
They don’t let emotions overcloud their judgment.
INFJ love peace more than anything. After door slamming o9r cutting someone from their life, they feel peaceful.
And accepting them back in their life or reopen the door for them will create conflicts and can interrupt their peace so no matter what or how hard someone tries once INFJ slams the door there is no reopening of the door for that person.
They don’t feel bad when locking the door for someone. But there is always hope for the person who has changed.
This is one of the dark sides of the world’s nicest personality INFJ.